Parenting is virtually a difficult, challenging, and rewarding job in your path towards life. However, single parenting is the most difficult process as most of the responsibility of bringing up a child relies on a single person. To perform the duty of a mother and a father can be a frustrating, uncontrollable and exhausting task. Here is some valuable advice offered by professionals to help single parents in efficiently raising their child.
1. Give top priority to your child: Concentrate more on your child by giving him the utmost priority. Try to participate effectively in every action of your child and make strong bond with love, care and attention. You may sometimes need to sacrifice more by giving priority to your children. However, this act can give you more happiness and honor in the life ahead. Take care of your personal welfare and effectually maintain this difficult task and you can inevitably mold your child in to a successful human being.
2. Steady and positive discipline formation: Being single by fate can bring down your confidence level. However, feel strong and emphasize discipline in your life in a self-assured and non-emotional mode. Make sure to implement the disciplinary actions on your child and ensure that he/she follows it in a steady and positive way.
3. Proper and effective communication: An effective single parent needs to implement open and proper communication in the family. Be open your children and communicate with them in the most caring way. Ask them about their school, their activities and friends. Try to understand their likes and dislikes through effective communication. Concentrate your entire energy on assuring that your beloved feels comfortable and stress free while communicating to you.
4. Be honest and explain your emotions: A sudden expression of anger in any case, may evolve questions in the minds of your child. So be honest and explain the state of anger and the reasons. Losing once temper is a common phenomenon but the presence of you child at that instance can be more dangerous. Accept the reality, explain that to your kid and ensure him that you will
adopt better ways to deal with your temper.
5. Organize the household and finances: A thriving single parent takes care of the needs of the family in a useful manner. Try to maintain a calendar and make sure you use your source of income efficiently and effectively. It is very important for a single parent to be successfully organized in the case of finances and fulfilling the needs of the child. Always pre-plan your activities to avoid messing up at the last moment. Give responsibilities to your child considering their age group. This will help to develop them into responsible people in life.
6. Maintain good habits: Try to implement good habits in daily routines. Maintain proper habits with bedtime routines as well as study activities. This helps to acquire stability, organization and good manners in your child.
7. Positive relation with relatives (especially the separated parent):Maintain co-operation and positive association with the child’s separated parent as much as feasible. Encourage the child to be with the other person and make them both involved in and influence each other's state of being. Even though you may possess a feeling of hatred towards the separated parent, try to co-operate considering your child's benefit. However, if the person poses a threat to the child, remember that the child's safety comes first.
8. Positive perception: You are definitely assigned with challenging tasks as single parenting but always maintain a positive perception towards life. Your perception and outlook may influence your child's attitude. If you possess a positive outlook and perception in a difficult situation, your kid may also adopt this positive perspective. This may even help them to survive and flourish in difficult stages of their life.
9. Spend more time with your child: With single parenting, it is more important for you to spend more time with your child and to be involved in your activities. Indulge in pleasurable activities such as playing, gardening, and outings. This shared time and understanding helps to develop a strong bond with you and your child. This may even erase all the worries of the child associated with the separation of his other parent. This time can be very relaxing and rewarding for the both of you.
10. Appreciate your child: Let your child understand your love and appreciation. Appreciate your child in a proper way and show off your love, care and appreciation, although it is evident. Too many parents spend all their energy correcting their child. Do not forget to praise you child when he does well. They eat it up.Being a single mother or father and simultaneously performing the duties of both the parents, to bring up your child is no more a difficult task. The advice of professionals and your implementation of that advice can help you transform the tasks of single parenting into pleasurable ones.
By: Jonnie Blaylock
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